2nd Anniversay of Sandra's Death 10/10/09

It hardly seems like 2 years and other times it seems like 10 years. It was the 2nd anniversary of Sandra's death, had the 5pm Mass said for her by Fr. Tom. Jessie + Dan+ Dani's friend Wayne attended, along with Wendell & Roxanne my best friends. I preached al three Masses. Friends have been very important to my grief process as well as the support system aspect.

From the old song,"You don't know what you got till its gone" certainly rings true in my case.

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