Beautiful People

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.”

- Elizabeth Kubler Ross, 1926-2004

I attended a continuing education workshop on chemical depenedency this slide was included. This quote by Elizabeth Kubler Ross, a pioneer in the modern day hospice movement made me think of Sandra and the struggles she/we experienced after the ovarian cancer diagnosis.

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